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    • Guest_4603 : hy..how to register as member?..anyone can help me...
    • BaiBoo : SC: You can register for The Pink Box in our website and collect them in our partnership private hospitals after you give birth.
    • BaiBoo : Guest_3078: Dear mother, we launched our Pink Box since early this year, 2010. You can register on our website and get the Pink Box in our partnership private hospitals after you give birth
    • leez : salam Dr, saya ada kuar spotting seminggu sebelum saya period.saya period pada 2/9, saya kuar spotting tu pada 28/8.apakah yang sayaperlu lakukan..TQ Dr
    • Guest_2512 : Hi, I'm recently pregnant with 32 wks +. This is my 1st baby and i wish everything will go smooth.
    • Guest_2512 : I'm pregnant with 32 wks this is my 1st baby and i wish everything wil
    • Guest_4359 : nk tanya sye dh lewat period sebulan, bla test still -ve
    • aida_marslio : oo lupa highlight, saya akan bawa twins..hubby dirive n my mom in law to assist
    • aida_marslio : Hi, nk tanye boleh tak saye travel selepas c-sec. saya bcadang untuk berpantang di kelantan. jadi selepas operation, saya akn stay di k.l 1-2 minggu. baru travel ke kelantan ( perjalanan 8-10 jam). ade ape2 yg patut saya jangka atau sediakn?
    • SC : Dear Baiboo Team, It’s very excited for me when I saw that mummy Tummy Box is back! I’m now in second pregnancy. I never received any Tummy box since I join Baiboo (since my first pregnancy). Many friends that I recommended Baiboo to them do receive Mummy Tummy Box. :( Therefore, I hope that Baiboo can send me Mummy Tummy Box. Please do not hesitate to contact me if you need any further information. siewchean@yahoo. com Thank you so much!!
    • leez : Dr, last period sy August lepas.esok spttnya saya period. sy ada brown spotting pada 28 August lepas.adakah itu implantation bleeding?
    • raina : hai doktor..saya ingin tahu, kenapa sudah 3 bulan saya tidak pirod sejak keluar darah nifas.saya dah buat ujian air kencing 19.8.10, tapi negatif. saya menyusu badan penuh selama 1bulan lebih...bulan ke2 hingga bulan ke 3, campur susu badan dan susu formula. bulan ke4 sepenuhnya susu formula.apa yang perlu saya lakukan. [maklumat lain: umur;26.anak ke 2, anak pertama piriod saya tidak bermasalah]
    • Guest_4871 : saya ingin tahu adakah kerana puasa kandungan hCG dalam air kencing rendah?last period sy 17 july 2010 tp sampai sekarang belum period lagi.sy buat ujian upt tp negatif..adakah saya hamil?
    • Guest_927 : salam dr...sy nk tnya 1 soalan..sy blm berkahwin..perio d sya tidak teratur..pd ogos 09'period sy keluar shhga dis 09'dan pda jan 10' period sya x dtg smpai mac 10'dan start bln 4 period sya x berhenti sehgga msk bln puasa..dn sya risau sgt.. ape mslah yg sya hadapi..period sya kdg2 x perlukan pnggunaan pad..tp bla nk buang air darah still ada..dn yg plg merisaukan dh 2 kali darah pejal keluar..ape mslah sya dr..blh jelaskan dr..sya x ambil ape2 pil pun..
    • Guest_4844 : Hi! My son is rejecting his avent bottle. When I am breastfeed, he drinks alot. but when he goes to the nanny, he just doesn't drink. please advise which teats similar to our breast.
    • Guest_3078 : i never get my pink box since i joint the BaiBoo Family in year 2005.
    • Guest_4574 : Hi, im trying to get the free pink box by filling up all my details but cant proceed to the end. It says 'duplicate emails'. What is that means? This is my 2nd pregnancy and my 1st time requested for the box. Pls advise. Tq.
    • Guest_248 : sy confius dgn period sy.bln 6 keluarkan implanon,bln 3/7 mensus.tp bln 8 smpai arini x period lg.sblm pakai implanon,period normal.buat upt,tp negatif.nape ye Dr?
    • Guest_3478 : kalu saya tidak tau sy pregnant atau x bole atau tidak saya makn ubat sembelit...sb saya tgh planing to get pregnant...
    • BaiBoo : Zila: Sila rujuk «link»
    • arieffa : salam. Dr, bulan ini saya telah membuat 2 kali upt dan mendapati kedua2nya positif.. saya membuat upt pada 9 dan 11ogos yg lalu. namun demikian saya period pada 14 ogos tetapi hanya selama 3 hari dan beberapa hari berikut keluar cairan coklat. sy telah berjumpa doktor pada 14 ogos dan dr menyarankan bahawa tidak berpuasa.. semasa scan ada fetus namun mengikut doktor yg memeriksa sack tidak develop dengan betul. mohon pendapat doktor
    • zila : Assalammu'alaik um.. Dr, saya baru keguguran pada 21/8/2010. Complete abortion. Dr dah scan dalam rahim saya kosong tapi hari ni saya buat test still positif. Adakah kandungan HcG dalam air kencing masih ada kerana baru 3 hari keguguran? Atau saya memang hamil?
    • Guest_3340 : Salam doc..Pputaran haid normal sy adlh pd 19/6 dan slalunya selama 6-7 hari..Namun pd 19/7, ada darah yg kuar tp jumlahnya sdkt dan berlarutan sehigga 16 hr..pd 19/8 haid sy tidak keluar..adakah brlaku kehamilan sepjg tmph trsbut?
    • Guest_539 : Salam Puan. jika saya berpuasa adakah akan memberi apa2 effect kepada baby saya? adakah baby saya akan kekurangan zat. pada pendapat Puan, adakah saya boleh berpuasa atau pun tidak , dan megganti puasa saya setelah baby lahir. kandungan saya : 8 minggu. umur : 25 tahun. ini adalah baby pertama saya.
    • Guest_3839 : ingin tau usia kehamilan,sya bkahwin pada 25/07/2010,dan bru-baru ni sya ke klinik utk pemeriksaan kehamilan dan di dapati hamil selama 6 mgu berdasarkan kiraan putaran haid sya iaitu pada09/07/2010.. berapa sebenar usia kehamilan sya sedangkan sya bersama suami pada 27/07/2010...bag ai mana usia kandungan sya bole jd 6 mgu?
    • sarah : saya mengandung 7bulan.saya mengalami kencing kotor.terdapat ketone,alb,leu dlm air kencing.walaupun saya minum 2liter air kosong,tapi keadaan ini tetap berlaku.apakah cara penyelesaian terbaik?
    • 1101 : salam, sy igin tahu adakah period yg pndk mempengaruhi utk hamil cnthnye sy hanya mengalami 4 hr saje period
    • Guest_916 : sy ingin tau adakah boleh sy menaiki pesawat dlm ms trdekat dgn usia kandungan sy baru 7 minggu?
    • Guest_1840 : Salam sejahtera , saya kurang faham tentang kitaran haid.. period saya bermula pada 12 ogos 2010 sehingga 16 ogos .. adakah kehamilan boleh berlaku pada tarikh 17 atau 18 ogos ...
    • BaiBoo : leez: Puan boleh rujuk tips kehamilan «link»
    • BaiBoo : Guest_3875: Puan boleh menggunakan Ovulation Calenderi yang terletak di sebelah kiri laman web kami.
    • iza : salam..saya risau sebab haid saya tak datang masuk ari ni dah 3 bulan..last period 21/5/2010..masa 28/7 ada darah kluar sedikit.xsampai setengah jam kemudian kering.saya ada buat ujian pregnancy tp hasilnya negetive.saya risau memikirkan..perl ukah saya berjumpa doktor
    • amani : hye,saya nk tanya..sy br bjumpa doc utk cuba rwtn hamil.sy diberi nasihat n ubat subur yg perlu dimakan pd haid ke2-ke6..apakah fungsi ubat ini sebenarnya?
    • Guest_3625 : Dr,bayi saya berumur 6 bln this 19/8. Sy memberi susu badan + susu formula. Last 16/8 saya telah pergi appoinment di hospital kerajaan (pakar pediatrik). Saya dimaklumkan bahawa TSH anak saya adalah tinggi around 136. Dr tlh memberi ubat Thyroxine 25mg n mengambil darah utk pengesahan sekali lg. Soalan saya ialah apakah kesan jika kekurangan thyroxine hormon ini dan apakah tanda2nya. Bagaimanakah dia akan mengganggu perkembangan otak bayi saya.dan jika pengesahan sekali lagi adalah normal adakah

Baby Hatch – Linking unwanted babies with couples

In May, a month-old baby boy was found abandoned in a shack, covered with ants and mosquitoes. That same month, two teenagers from Malacca were charged with burying a newborn boy.

And just this week, the body of a baby, his umbilical cord still attached, was found by a road in Damansara Jaya, Petaling Jaya. Police believe the boy was dumped three hours after his birth.

Cases like these convince the committee members of OrphanCARE that the newly-installed baby hatch at their centre in Kampung Tunku, Petaling Jaya, is crucial.

OrphanCARE, a smart partner of the Women, Family and Community Development Ministry that aims to find every orphan and abandoned baby a loving family, decided to build one after its inception in 2008.

A baby hatch is a place where mothers who are unable, or unwilling, to take care of their babies, can leave them in a safe environment, where they will be cared for. There are hatches in countries like Pakistan, Germany, Japan and India. (See Different names, same aim)

Many abandoned babies die from exposure to the elements. Some survive, but their health usually suffers – chest infections are common.

Initially, the NGO considered purchasing the design of a baby hatch from Germany, where there are 80 babyklappen scattered around the country. However, the price was daunting.

OrphanCARE then decided to come out with its own hatch, which cost RM15,000 to build. It is located at the centre’s premises, a bungalow situated in residential Kampung Tunku.

The hatch is actually a room measuring one square metre. It is equipped with a bed, an air-conditioner, a lamp and a sensor that sounds an alarm in the caretaker’s room upstairs whenever a baby is placed in it.

“The area is secluded although it’s near the main road,” says OrphanCARE president Datuk Adnan Mohd Tahir.

Location is often a dilemma: People may hesitate to approach a more public place; on the other hand, a secluded place might not be accessible. The centre hopes to build more baby hatches and place them in hospitals.

Adnan and his wife Elya became orphan activists after the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami, which left many children orphaned in places like Acheh. A business friend told Adnan that he hoped to bring 15 orphans from Acheh to Malaysia, so that they could be adopted by families here. The couple decided to help by spreading the word around; in no time they started getting calls from people eager to adopt.

However, something unforeseen cropped up. When word of their efforts got to Unicef, they were suspected of running a baby trafficking operation.

Elya and Adnan were called up to Bukit Aman for questioning, but they managed to clear the air.

“We were not selling babies, we were getting help for orphans. Unfortunately, the Indonesian government put a stop to them leaving Acheh. As a result, there were many disappointed parents here,” says Adnan.

Rather than be discouraged by the turn of events, and seeing how good the response had been to the Acheh appeal, he decided to gather a few friends to do something for Malaysian orphans instead. That was how OrphanCARE began.

Adnan says the baby hatch is a natural progression, especially if you look at the statistics: Between 2005 and 2009, the police recorded 407 cases of abandoned babies in the country.

These are just those found and reported; many abandoned babies go undiscovered and forgotten.

Objections

Baby hatches have existed since medieval times, but they often stoke controversy, no matter where they’re built. Since the launch of OrphanCARE’s baby hatch on May 29, response from the public has been divided. Detractors wrote to newspapers expressing their disgust; they said it would encourage people to have premarital sex and engage in reckless behaviour.

Shelter Home executive director James Nayagam was quoted in The Star (Get to root problem of baby dumping; June 1) as saying that baby hatches are a waste of taxpayers’ money because they just treat the symptoms and do not resolve the issue of abandoned babies.

It is not true that the baby hatch was built using taxpayers’ money, says Noraini Hashim, deputy president of OrphanCARE.

“The money was donated by our president’s interior design company. We also did fundraising last year during our launch, which gave us enough to rent the house and pay the staff.”

The government has promised them RM100,000, which they have yet to receive, she adds.

“Our main target is to save babies, We are not saying that (the baby hatch) is the solution to the baby abandonment problem,” says Noraini, who works in the corporate sector.

“The point at which a young girl abandons her baby is the end of a series of events. We are tackling that phase of the problem. We totally agree that the root cause must be addressed.

It goes back to parenting, education and more,” says assistant secretary Azra Banu.

But the baby hatch has supporters too, such as Perak Mufti Tan Sri Harussani Zakaria, who believes unwanted babies should be saved.

“At first I didn’t agree with this idea as I was afraid it will send the wrong message, especially to teenagers. However, now we really need baby hatches for sinless babies,” he was quoted in a Berita Harian report of May 31.

The mufti believes that those who abandon their babies should face harsh penalties. However, the folks at OrphanCARE stress that one should not put the blame solely on the mothers, many of whom hide their pregnancy – out of shame and fear of repercussions from society and family for having a child out of wedlock. Some are victims of rape.

“We had a university student who hid her pregnancy from her roomate because you can get booted out of university if you get pregnant and are not married. It’s not easy, trying to hide that from friends and family,” Adnan says.

“For a person to abandon her baby, she must have been in a terrible state of mind. It’s difficult to imagine.”

The procedures

Whenever a baby is deposited at the baby hatch, OrphanCARE has to inform the Social Welfare Department (Jabatan Kebajikan Malaysia, or JKM). “We then have to send the baby for a check-up. If it is left without a signed consent form – available in Malay or English, and placed at the side of the hatch – we have to lodge a police report,” says Adnan.

The legalities come into play here. It is vital that the mother signs her consent to give her child up for adoption, failing which it will be a deemed an abandoned baby and a police report is mandatory.

Under the Malaysia Child Act 2001, anyone found guilty of abandoning a child is liable to a fine not exceeding RM20,000, or imprisonment for up to 10 years, or both.

“In other countries, there’s no form. But in Malaysia, because of the law, we have to encourage them to sign one,” Adnan says.

Once OrphanCARE has received a baby and informed JKM, it will contact a prospective parent on its waiting list. Currently, there are about 200 applicants on the list.

“We look for parents who have financial stability and good parenting abilities. Preference is given to childless couples,” says Kim Nazli Rosali, coordinator of the parents’ committee.

So far, the committee has interviewed 50 potential couples, using questions set by JKM.

After the interview, their application goes to JKM, which then sends a counsellor to visit their home.

If a couple is deemed to be suitable as adoptive parents, JKM gives its approval, and the baby is passed to them.

“The process is almost ‘instantaneous’ – it takes just a few days because we have the list of parents ready and they’ve already been interviewed,” says Kim.

“The only thing (that’s) slow is the wait for the baby, as we do not know when one will be deposited. Therefore, the more publicity we get, the better, so that mothers can leave their babies at a safe place,” Noraini adds.

OrphanCARE welcomes volunteers. For more information, visit www.orphancare.org.my or call 03-7876 1900. Its baby hatch is located at 6, Lorong SS1/24A, Kampung Tunku, PJ.

(The Star Online, June 6th)

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